"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
-Albert Einstein
i was asked why dont i try to make a mends with my father... and i used this quote as my answer. i know my father and i have both done wrong... everyone knows this and we can agree on this point. in the past, ive actually tried to make things better by talking to him and communicating with him only to be "shot down". not just once, but numerous occasions. so when i told to keep doing the same thing, expecting him to change, that quote was the first thing in my head and out of my mouth. i would like things to be better, but i cant make him change. ive changed. and i can control what i do, but its to the point where i almost dont want to call my mom at home b/c i know i'll end up talking to my dad and we'll get to arguring. im just tired of it. am i wrong for not wanting to keep getting chastied for trying to make things work? it wouldnt be that hard, if he would "do the right thing"... but o well. im just frustrated right now and needed to do something, so i typed.
12.7.08
insanity
Posted by Anonymous at 9:19 PM
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you tried their is only so much you can do to improve the situation ...sometimes time is the the best solution for the problem that your father ... i think that's cool that your being the bigger man in the situation trying to make things better and admiting on doing wrong
Yeah, fathers can be like that but you know what...just emai insane...you know what he is like, you know he will cause an arguement...so in essence you can ignore it knowing he will do it but dont close the communication channels...
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